Tuesday, December 13, 2011


Imagine that you're a guy (well, if you're a female reader) and your female friend says this to you,
"Let's be just friends" Oooooouuuuhhhhhhhhhh.... CURSED WORDS! (for guys)

FRIEND ZONE informally means

Yeap! You got that right!

Here's the formal definition :

A dating term describing a relation in which one partner wants to become intimate romantically while the other prefers to be just friends. ~ Wikipedia

I'd like to ask men what is their reaction to this?

And I'd like to ask women how many male friends have they friend-zoned before?
Because statistically proven, when asked about
"Can a male and a female be just friends?"
It is the women that mostly said yes.
8 out of every 10 men said NO.

So, this is mostly a men's problem huh? 
Hey, I'm not saying that girls have never been friend-zoned before.
There are minor cases. Very, very minor.

Personally, I think that friend zone is a phase where a man has finally realised that they will never be the man the girl is talking about. Females are generally (and easily) acceptance to having a relation with males without romantically involved. Whereas, males cannot.

TRUST ME when I say, every friendship has to face a phase where either one or both will feel intimacy towards each other. 

If it's both, then it's good.
If it's only one party, uuuuu gotta prepare what's coming ahead mister!

Boys, don't think we don't realise that you have feelings for us.
But once you have been friend-zoned, it is best for us to avoid the topic.
And pretend that we don't know.
As long as you don't bring that up.

Talking from experience, girls, have you ever felt this before?
Like you need him,but you never have a thought of taking it to the next level?
Every time you have a story to share, it is he the one you go for.
Every time you have a problem,it is he you call.
Every time you are alone,it is he you hang out with.
But you still search for THE ONE to be there for you.
Yeah? Been there done that?
You have friend-zoned the FRIEND.
Like you cannot accept even a thought of kissing him 
elsewhere besides the cheek and the forehead. 

Now, how do we able to be with each other without feeling romantic?
I don't know why...it's our nature I guess. =D

Is there a CURE for this? 
Sure there is. I'll spill the beans in the next entry.

Til then. CHIAO!!

The Perfect V-Jay-Jay

OUCHHHHHH!!! WARNING! WARNING!!! This content is not for those with a heart failure.
(Even I skipped watching 'those' scenes)

Anyways, I know I know it's been a loooongg time since I last updated this. Too busy running a marathon of watching "Charmed". Hehe,old school eyy?

Anyways, I was browsing through the internet, and  i stumbled upon
Documentary Heaven webpage.

Since I cannot download the documentary that I watched, here's the link : 

At the very start of the video (okay I'm not used to it sooo...) AAAAWWWWCCHHH! She waxed her below part. Ouch.

Okay, basically this video is about teenage girls in the UK having plastic surgery on their vaginae that the business has skyrocketed over the few past years. Here's a quote from the page,

this documentary focuses on the rise in vaginal cosmetic surgery, specifically labiaplasty. For the uninitiated, labiaplasty involves cutting off the inner labia so that they don’t ‘hang’ below the outer labia.

 Ouch. I don't understand medical terms but I know it must hurts.

Why do they even want to have parts of their vaginae removed?
I understand the surgery helps them psychologically. But there are more ways to embrace their natural bodies rather than having blood gushing out just to fix it surgically. Please watch this video, I could not elaborate more, this entry would be very long.

There's a view in this video from the Muslims' perspective.

I mean, as a Muslim, I personally think that the girl in this video 
should gather her every last pieces of courage 
and have her man knows her mistake. 
She was involved in fixing her hymen (translation : dara)
 surgically after having sex with her then boyfriend. 
Fixing her hymen is the same as lying to her man. 

I believe that every woman is matched with her other half.
 I am sure the other half could eventually accept her mistake. 
After all, seriously woman, change your mentality. 
Losing your hymen is not worse than death. Don't exaggerate. 

And here's another video that I watched about three women being in love with objects.

One is married to the Eiffel Tower.
She has a lover, the Berlin Wall.
And she has a friend who made out with a carnival fun ride called 100 Nacht.
And she's still in love with the Empire State Building and a church fence.

I find this very odd, peculiar,wrong.
But after awhile, I have respect on them for having
sooo much love in their hearts.
Even normal people ignore that quality.